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Family Camp Songs

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Our area went to Family Camp at Windy Gap last weekend. My friend DL (David Lin) led music and sent me his set list to share. Hopefully it can be helpful to any of you planning music for Family Camp.

Friday Night

Chicken Fried
Happy
Look All Around You
Home (Phillip Phillips)
Let There Be Light
Good Good Father

Saturday Morning

Sing Hallelujah
Sweet Home Alabama
Lion Sleeps Tonight
Thinking Out Loud
Keep Our Eyes Open
Lay My Burdens Down

Saturday Night

Shut Up & Dance
Brown Eyed Girl
Bad Blood/Fight Song
Sweet Caroline
Let There Be Light
It’s Amazing

Sunday Morning

Oh Our Lord
Everlasting God
God Delights In You
Good Good Father
Amazing Love
On Jordan’s Stormy Banks

The Young Life Masters: A Frisbee Golf Camp Fundraiser

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Written by Austin Drake, Dave Mahon, and Derek Hay.

Are you looking for a fun and unique fundraising event this spring? This past weekend we hosted the "5th annual Rome/Floyd County Young Life Frisbee Golf Masters." 

The event is held on Berry College’s campus, our local leader-farm. The event is open to, not only our high school friends and college leaders, but also any Berry students or alumni. Participants get together teams of four to play scramble style (captain’s choice) frisbee golf on a student-made course on campus. 

Registration is done at the event, and teams often arrive dressed out in golf polos, visors and khakis like they were playing in the real Masters. Participants pay a fee of $20 per person, which includes a Chick-Fil-A biscuit, coffee from our local coffee shop, and a snazzy t-shirt and, most importantly, helping send kids to camp. Donated coffee and biscuits, and a $6 shirt leads to about a $14 profit towards campership for every participant. We’ve had 80-100 players in the past three years, netting $1200-$1500 per tourney to be split among the high school kids who come and work.

Teams start at different holes on the course in order to increase speediness (also known as a shotgun start) and play through all 18 holes back to the hole they started on. Some teams play for fun, some teams play to win. Many a course record has been set during the event. 

At some holes there are mini-challenges, including longest drive and closest-to-the-pin. Once all teams have played through and reported scores, there are often tie-breakers to separate the top teams. The tied teams play through holes until their tie is broken, which usually happens within the first couple of holes. The rest of the participants follow like the gallery at a PGA event. Then, the prizes and accolades are awarded.

High school kids who need to raise money for summer camp come to the event an hour early and help set up and work the event. We split all tournament proceeds between the high school workers.

Additionally, the event helps raise awareness and support for Young Life in the college community. College students who may not be particularly involved in Young Life often play in the event and are able to see the good the ministry does, as well as experience the fun so common in Young Life. It especially helps in reaching new high school friends, as many friends we know will often invite their friends who don’t often go to club or who we don’t know which helps them to get involved and to meet leaders.

Overall, the event is a huge blast and a huge success every year for so many reasons, and we here in Rome/Floyd County, Georgia highly recommend it.

How to Say Goodbye: Thoughts on Young Life Leaders Leaving Well

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Some of your Young Life teammates might be entering a season of transition. Maybe they're graduating, moving, burned out or called to another ministry. 

Their absence will be noticed. Not just by you or your team, but by the kids. Change is hard. Trust is expensive. Abandonment issues are real.


Would you consider sharing this post with any of your teammates who are transitioning out of being a YL leader?  Hopefully it can help them and the middle and high school friends they'll leave behind.


How to Say Goodbye to our Middle and High School Friends? 


Years ago I worked at The Dale House Project in Colorado Springs, a residential care facility that was started in partnership with Young Life. It's a home for at-risk teenagers with no place to go. 


During my one year internship, our house counselor, Jim Sheffer, spent time training us how to say goodbye. He was firm in urging us to not make promises we couldn't keep. The specific population of kids we were working with had been repeatedly abandoned and rejected by their families and friends. Now we'd come into their lives for a short time, loved them in a way they had never experienced before, and soon we'd be leaving them as well. Leaving hurt deeply, both us and the kids.

Jim encouraged us to speak to the kids in a language that was honest, loving, and leaving. He prompted us to say things like:


  • I'm so thankful for the time we've shared together and so sad to have it end.
  • Sadly, our relationship is likely never going to be the same that it's been this year.
  • I want to keep in touch with you, but I also know that life and distance will not make that as easy as it has been.
  • I will pray for you when I think of you. 
  • I will miss you when I'm gone.
In this digital age we have the tendency to make false promises. We think because we're Facebook friends or follow one another on SnapChat, we can be real friends, when in reality its much more difficult when your paths aren't regularly crossing in person. In our busy lives, the old adage is typically true: "Out of sight, out of mind."
 

Dunbar's number asserts that we all have a relational capacity of around 150 people. Yet when I became a Young Life leader Mal McSwain told me to "make friends like you're going to know them for the rest of your life." That year alone I became friends with over 150 high schoolers, and now, almost 20 years later, those numbers have continued to grow.

I think I missed one key word during that YL Leader training. "Make friends LIKE you are going to know them for the rest of your life." As leaders, we are to befriend kids with the mentality that we would love to be a groomsmen or bridesmaid in their wedding one day, to be roasting them at their 40th birthday party, to be old friends on that "Young Life 100th Birthday Caribbean Cruise" in 2041." 


We must also not be so arrogant to think that without us in their lives, they'll never know Christ or have others love them and influence them in the way of Jesus. God calls people in and out of our lives for specific seasons.

The reality is that we're not going to know all of our middle and high school friends for the rest of our lives. So...we must learn how to say goodbye.


If you are leaving...


You'll Be Missed More Than You Know


Do not assume kids won't notice that you're gone. Whether you realize it our not, you are one of the only "adult friends" these teenagers have. They most likely feel closer to you than you feel to them. Even though they sometimes act like they don't even know you when you show up in the cafeteria or to a game, they'll notice when you are gone. It will be a loss for them, and a big loss for many of them.


Give An Explanation


When leaving, we must be intentional to actually say goodbye. It is easier to just leave without the hoopla, but kids need to know the truth. They need to hear it from you, not someone else. If you asked them to trust you and to be your friend, you at least owe them the time to tell them goodbye. In some cases, it may be complicated as to why you are leaving, but it's important for you to give kids an honest, clear, and well thought through explanation. You don't owe them all the details, but you at least owe them a reason for why you are leaving them.


Leave With Grace


Maybe you are leaving under not so great circumstances. Maybe you had a fall out with a teammate or a staff person. Maybe you're not a fan of the way things are being run. Even if you are leaving with tension, don't tear down others or verbally attack the ministry. Revenge doesn't mean that you win, it means that everyone loses. Choose your words carefully. Be truthful, but speak with grace. 


Be A Cheerleader


When a kid calls and tells you that "Young Life sucks since you left," encourage them to step up and be a leader instead of a critic. Be positive and support the leadership that is in place. Your voice still carries weight and influences the direction of the ministry. 

Don't Make Promises You Can't Keep

  • It hurts less initially if you say, "I'm not going to be a leader, but we can still hang out all the time." But it hurts way more down the road when you aren't at all their games like you were last season.
  • It hurts less initially when you say, "I'm moving, but we'll still talk all the time, that's what phones are for." But it hurts way more down the road when you don't make those phone calls they were expecting.
  • It hurts less initially when you say, "I'll come back and visit all the time." But it hurts way more down the road when they see pics on Instagram revealing that you were back in town and didn't call.
Tell them that you are sad that your relationship will never again be the same. Acknowledge the loss and hurt that comes with goodbyes.

Expect Anger


Not from many kids, but probably from the ones you are closest too. They have a right to be angry. You've chosen something else instead of them. But choices are part of life. Jesus chose only twelve disciples. He chose to spend more time with only three of them. Our choices affect others. Many kids have been wounded by one day coming home to find out their mom or dad has moved out. Many of them have experienced real abandonment and they will be angry with you, and maybe even God. As I have moved I have had kids say to me, "You're leaving me just like everyone else in my life leaves me." We've got to trust that God is in control and if we are being obedient to Him, then His plan is for ultimate good, even when it results in anger and hurt.


Make The Hand-off


It's your responsibility to do your best to set up the kids you're leaving with another YL leader or someone else who can invest in their life. While it's easier to just roll out, it's worth the extra effort to introduce the new leaders to kids and even create hang out events where the new leader can be set up well to begin to earn the right to be heard. Also, be strategic in introducing new leaders to school faculty and parents of kids that you know. A true sign of good leadership is the success of an organization after a leader leaves.


Written by Drew Hill.

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WyldLife Wednesday: Sample Script for Calling Parents

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Getting kids to WyldLife camp means calling their parents. Not sure what to say? Try this sample script:

May I speak to Mr./Mrs. Smith?

Hello, my name is Sarah and I’m a WyldLife leader at East Middle School.

I’ve enjoyed meeting your daughter, Ashley and getting to see her at WyldLife this year. I wanted to call and let you know about our WyldLife camp trip this summer.

We are going to Camp Buckner in Burnet, Texas for WyldLife camp July 3-7 and I would love for Ashley to be on that trip with us. Have you heard anything about the trip?

If they haven’t heard about the trip, say

We will leave Dallas on Saturday, July 3 and return on Thursday, July 7. The cost is $500 and includes transportation, food, housing and all camp activities. We’re taking 50 kids from East Middle School and North Middle School to camp, and it is going to be an amazing week. We’ll be traveling on a charter bus– the camp is about a 4-hour drive from Dallas down in the Texas Hill Country.

We’ll join other WyldLife groups from all over Texas at Camp Buckner– there will be a total of about 300 middle school kids and leaders. The camp has a great pool and lake with some awesome water activities. There’s also a ropes course, basketball, volleyball, Frisbee golf and all kinds of WyldLife fun. Every year, kids come back saying that camp was one of the best weeks of their lives.

Do you know if Ashley is interested in coming with us?

If a parent says his/her child does not want to go, find out why

If it’s financial, say: 

I know $500 is a lot of money, and we’ll work with you to help raise that money. We don’t want money to be the reason Ashley doesn’t come to camp. We can set up a monthly payment plan, and Ashley can participate in some of our camp fundraisers. We can figure out the money part.

If it’s because his/her child’s friends aren’t going, say

We’d love for Ashley to come and bring a couple of her friends. Who do you think she’d be excited about going to camp with? I’d be happy to call their parents and tell them about camp too.

If it’s because his/her child has a schedule conflict, say

I’m sorry to hear that she won’t be able to join us. If anything changes with your summer schedule, let me know. We really would love for Ashley to come with us.

If answer is “yes”, his/her child wants to go to camp, say

We are so excited that Ashley wants to come with us! I’d be happy to stop by and pick up her registration form and deposit. Or you can register Ashley online – let me give you that website. We only have 5 spots left, so I hope you’ll sign her up soon. I don’t want her to miss out!

Do you have any other questions about camp? It is going to be an amazing week, and I’m so excited that Ashley will be there with me.


Bring your entire WyldLife team together and spend an evening calling parents (and eating pizza!) And pray that God will give you the courage and diligence to invite kids to camp this summer by calling their parents – and that parents will say “Yes!”

Written by Julie Clapp.

If you'd like more help getting kids to sign up for camp, check out this series of posts: "How to Get Kids to Camp."

A New Fundraising Idea: miYLstore & How To Win A Free Shirt!

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miYLstore is a platform for Young Life Staff (Areas, Missions, Regions, etc) that makes it easy for Young Life staff to create and sell high-quality products with your custom Young Life logo that people will love, with no cost or risk!

This is a platform that can help you raise money for your budget or campership needs? We have the solution for you to add into your fundraising strategy to meet your goals! This is in addition to your current banquet, golf tournaments, crawfish broil, etc. The Young Life Store is now offering miYLstores for FREE so it costs you nothing! No investment of mission dollars!

Our mission at The Young Life Store with the miYLstores is to remove the barriers between great ideas and helping you raise the money you need to reach a world of kids!

Check out The Young Life Store's newest project and let us help you fundraise! Choose a month you'd like to do your campaign and launch a personal store just for your area, region or part of the ministry. Pick out a few fun items to put your logo on, let us build the site, you push out the marketing to your donors, friends and family! When the campaign is over we print the products and send to all your people. Once the fundraiser is over we will send you a check and the list of those that ordered for you to add to your donor list! No money investment and a fun way to get people all over the world involved in your local Young Life ministry! Give us a call today to set up your miYLstore!

How your miYLstore can work for you?
  • No investment of mission dollars
  • Help build your PPL
  • Easy accurate sign up system for camps & other events. Use for your next camp trip tee instead of investing mission dollars in t-shirts you might not need
  • Remove the guesswork and out of pocket cost for products
  • Let us ship the items for you to anywhere in the world
  • No set up fee
  • No design fee
  • No hidden costs

Steps to setting up your miYLstore
  • Check out the video on how the miYLstore can help you
  • Download and fill out the miYLstore interest form & send to younglifestore@cleanfunpromo.com or call us at 1-800-266-1665 and tell us you’re interested in your own FREE miYLstore
  • Let us help you pick your products to put on your store with your custom logo. You’re not limited to t-shirts. We can do it all!
  • Set your goal or how much money you want to make and how long the campaign will last (suggested time 2 weeks).
  • Let us do the work and set up the store for you!
  • You market out your fundraising campaign through word of mouth, newsletters, social media, etc.
  • Receive a check at the end of your campaign! All profits will be given to you in a check that you can put into any account you like!
You have nothing to lose so give us a call today to set up your FREE miYLstore!

We are here to help you!
The Young Life Store Team
1-800-266-1665
Follow with us on Instagram (@younglifestore) before April 29nd for a chance to win a Young Life shirt!

Scorekeeper XL App

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Looking for an easy way to keep score for YL events and club games? Click here to download the Scorekeeper XL app. You can also mirror your device and put the scoreboard on the screen! 

Thanks to Eve Sarrett for passing along this idea after they used it for donut olympics.

Jesus Goes to The Movies

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You may have noticed that in nearly every conversation, web article, or even Sunday sermon, people are talking about, referencing, or using as illustration a favorite or memorable scene from a movie. Movies are huge and going to the local cineplex is one of the most participated-in activities in America— especially by teenagers. In 2016 alone, the film industry grossed over $11 billion. Let that sink in... $11 billion!

Teenagers and adults alike are willing to freely (and frequently) give their money to escape to a world filled with spies, monsters, aliens, or two animated characters who learn to become friends despite superficial differences. Meanwhile, a slight drop in temperature— or a late Saturday night— keep many from warming seats on Sunday morning. It’s a struggle. While we shouldn’t give up on having teenagers participate in our Sunday services, I would encourage us to find new and creative ways to engage both our youth and culture by taking our teenagers to the movies.

So, how does that work? Just drop them off and finance a ticket, a soda, and an over-priced popcorn? How is that helpful? Well, it’s not! But taking our teenagers to the movies can a great way to connect if you keep a few things in mind...

Story Is Powerful

Story is powerful. I believe it to be true, and I think Jesus did, too, because He used story as a cornerstone of his teaching ministry. Reading through the Gospels, you will find Jesus doing few things more than sitting with people and telling them stories… powerful stories. In fact, we believe that God Himself has been— and is still— telling the greatest story ever told! God loves story, and being created in His image, we do too. We connect with story. Think of your favorite sermon; was it your favorite because the pastor itemized a set of instructions, or was it because someone brought an Old Testament or Gospel story to life? Or did the pastor connect a Biblical truth to a personal or local story that you could relate to? That is the power of story.

Entertainment Is Not Mindless...

We’ve already mentioned how people seem to look for any excuse to avoid church yet they are lining up on opening weekend for their favorite films. I would submit that, at least in part,  that is because those films are doing a better job at telling stories (but not telling a better story!). This means movie goers are voluntarily (and for a price) giving writers, directors, and producers  a few hours of their time to let convey what the movie’s creators think and feel about the world, culture, faith, and even God. Movie theaters have become modern-day pulpits and if we ignore these films, we exclude ourselves from the conversations and ideas being discussed. Orr worse, we don’t even acknowledge the ideas that may have slipped under the radar while people “turned their brains off."

It’s Not About What You Like, It’s About What They Like

I enjoy a wide array of film; from sci-fi to horror to animation to documentary. Even so, there are some movies that are just painful for me to sit through (e.g., . Nicholas Sparks' body of work). Fortunately, as leaders, our job is to engage with those we shepherd, and those things that interest them. In this case, if your entire Campaigners group is going to see the next installment of the Divergent series, then I would say, “They are not good films, but, good or bad, your high school friends are watching and connecting with them.” Find out why! Ask questions like “What was your favorite part?” “Why?” These are the best questions you can ask someone who connects with a film.

Be More Open-Minded

Hear me out— and please use discernment—just because something isn’t produced by a Christian film company doesn’t mean that it lacks value. I would actually argue quite the opposite. I know it seems like a no-brainer that the youth pastor would take the youth group to see a film like Woodlawn (which is a perfectly fine film), but that movie isn’t likely telling the stories that our teenagers are being saturated in every day— and by a huge majority of the culture. You may be surprised what teenagers can take away from a story; like how they deal with emotions from Inside Out; how do they fight against injustice an oppression from The Hunger Games; the power and responsibility in creation from Jurassic World; and yes, even what it looks like to be a family from the Fast & Furious movies!

Tell a Better Story

Ultimately, we have to ask ourselves, “Why?” Why are we engaging the narratives of popular culture? The answer is simple: To tell a better story. This is especially true with teenagers. I can only imagine the time and attention you as Young Life leaders spend trying to make the Gospel “relevant” to this generation. Stories about pharaohs and fishermen don’t connect as easily as they once did (right!?), so teenagers run to stories they can grasp. Stories of injustice, of broken families, and of heroes who choose to do the right thing in the face of overwhelming odds. These stories are noble and can be helpful in revealing the story. 

If your middle and high school friends connect with stories about a good guy who seeks justice, show them that it’s because they were created to desire justice. (Isa.1:17

If they love the animated movie about two unlikely toys who become friends, show them that it’s because they were made for community. (Ecc.4:9-12). 

And finally, when they just can’t shake the idea of our film hero laying down his life for his friends, remind them that we have a God who was willing to die for all of us. (1 John 3:16)

Tell Your Story

Once you've earned the right to be heard, one of the most powerful stories available to us as we connect with kids is our own. Use film as an opportunity to share how God entered your story (not that he ever left) to right the wrongs and trade hopelessness for joy. And then share how He is just waiting and eager to enter theirs.

Keep Exploring

For more on this, I would highly recommend my friend Joel Mayward’s new book, Jesus Goes To The Movies. We both are very passionate about engaging culture and, in his own words, Joel says that Jesus Goes to the Movies “...offers youth workers a theology of movies that can be passed to the next generation, equipping them with critical-thinking skills, discernment, and the ability to engage the film culture surrounding them with wisdom, grace, and truth."

I would also recommend James Harleman’s Cinemagogue video series on Film & Theology:

Film & Theology 101: God as Storyteller
Film & Theology 102: Redeeming Entertainment
Film & Theology 103: Engaging Narrative
Film & Theology 104: A Tale of Two Stories


Written by Mikey Fissel. Mikey is the Managing Editor at Reel World Theology and the Producer of the Reel World Theology Podcast— encouraging people to recognize that story is powerful and entertainment is not mindless. He lives in Greensboro, NC with his incredible wife Laura and their son Jon Luke.


Check the Young Life Leader Blog tomorrow for links to all the upcoming summer movies and opening dates.

How to End the Year with a Bang: Tips for Senior Club

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If you've not yet had your final club for this school year, the end is in sight. It’s become a tradition in many YL areas to end each year with “Senior Club,” giving the graduating seniors a chance to lead club and share about their experiences. Below are a few tips to help make the night a success. 

Senior Ownership
This could be your highest attendance club of this semester. If the seniors take ownership of it, they will get people there.

Personal Invites
Even if seniors have “checked out” of YL this is a club they will come back for... if personally invited. Not just a mass text, or an Instagram announcement, but a face to face invite or phone call. I’ve watched many kids come to a Senior Club that have never been to YL before. It's an easy invite because it’s the last club of the year and the seniors are speaking. Work hard to get first timers there! Who knows, they might even sign up for camp. It's happened many times!

8th Graders
This is a great club to invite current 8th graders, and give them a taste of what's to come in the fall when they become freshmen. Get parents and middle school teachers help in promoting that this club is open to 8th graders. If there is WyldLife in your area, connect with the WyldLife leaders and get their help in bringing their middle school friends. 

Also, offer prizes for the high schoolers who brings the most 8th graders. We always give away 'Lunch With A Leader' and bring kids lunch from their favorite restaurant to school. 

Alumni
If scheduled in May, often college students are back home and would love to come back and visit club.

Time
If not carefully monitored, this club could run too long. Consider starting 15-30 minutes earlier than usual. You could also do a cookout, grill hotdogs, and start at 6:37 instead of 7:37. Check the sports schedule and make sure to not conflict with a big home game. 

Club Content
Will the seniors run music, games, skits? If so, help them prepare. They can do classic YL skits, make fun of leaders, pick their favorite classic songs to sing, and make videos to show at club. It's also fun to play a 'Guess that Senior' game using baby pics. 

Videos
It's a fun opportunity for the seniors to film a video together. Check out this video from the seniors at Overton Young Life in Nashville. 




Senior Share
Allow enough time for every senior that wants to share to have a turn. Coach the seniors ahead of time on WHAT to share. If they know Christ, ask them to speak clearly of what He has done in their life. If they’ve been to camp or plugged into Campaigners, ask them to share of those experiences. Their words will carry much weight with the underclassmen. Although it is fun as leaders to hear kids tell us how great we are, encourage them to use this time to tell how great Jesus is instead.

Coach the seniors ahead of time on HOW LONG to share. If you have 15 seniors that each talk for 4 minutes, that will take an hour. Consider warning them ahead of time that after a certain predetermined length of time you will raise a sign in the back letting them know to wrap it up. Set the seniors up for success.

Celebration
Think outside the box about ways to make this evening special. Will you have a time when the leaders pray for the seniors? Will you give the seniors any gifts, notes, etc…Will you have a special surprise 24-ft long Gutter Ice Cream Sundae waiting for the kids out back when the night ends? If so, ask some parents to help prepare it so its ready and still frozen when everyone runs outside. Also, prepare to get sticky. Ice Cream fights are inevitable.



What other ideas have you seen work well? Comment below or email me here.

Summer Movies 2016: Opening Dates & Trailers

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The summer movie season begins in just 10 days. Our job as YL leaders is to lead our middle and high school friends into the adventure of following Christ. Part of that means helping them discover better ways to use their time than just settling for the big screen. But another part of our role is to meet them right where they are, and this summer they're likely to be at the movie theaters.

We can take advantage of this by planning well. Last summer I wrote in my calendar the opening nights of the blockbuster movies. A couple weeks before one I wanted to see came out, I started talking it up with kids. We went to see a couple midnight showings and they thought it was cool that their YL leader was willing to drive them around in the wee hours of the morning.

One night we met at a field around 10pm to play "Glow in the Dark Ultimate Frisbee" before the movie. Another night we hit up Waffle House after the film. Great bonding and memories.

Disclaimer
I haven't seen any of these movies below and would highly recommend you checking out reviews on kids-in-mind.com before taking kids to see a movie you might regret. When in doubt, talk to your Area Director. Also, be sure to communicate well with parents, especially if you're keeping their kids out late at night. Don't just settle for 'my mom said it was cool.' Go ahead and make that phone call to a parent.

Below are the opening dates for some summer movies you might want to see with your middle/high school friends. You can view the trailer for each movie by clicking the movie title below.

What movies are missing from this list? Any 'movie contact work ideas' you can share? Shoot us an email.

Read more about how we as leaders can help kids engage with movies in yesterday's post, Jesus Goes to the Movies.

May 6 - Captain America: Civil War
May 20 - Angry Birds
May 27 - X-Men: Apocalypse
May 27: Alice Through the Looking Glass
Jun 3 - TMNT: Out of the Shadows
Jun 10 - Now You See Me: The Second Act
Jun 10 - Warcraft
Jun 17 - Finding Dory
Jun 17 - Central Intelligence
Jun 24 - Independence Day Resurgence
Jul 1 - The Legend of Tarzan
Jul 1 - The BFG
Jul 8 - The Secret Life of Pets
Jul 15 - Ghostbusters
Jul 22 - Star Trek Beyond
Jul 22 - Ice Age: Collision Course
Jul 29 - Jason Bourne
Aug 5 - Suicide Squad
Aug 12 - Ben Hur
Aug 12 - Pete’s Dragon
Aug 19 - Kubo and the Two Strings
Aug 26 - Max Steel

WyldLife Wednesday: What are Middle Schoolers Thinking?

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Written by Kevin Chao, Area Director, Greenwich, CT and WyldLife Coordinator, Metro North Region

Take a moment and think back to your middle school days. What were you like back then? How would you describe who you were in middle school? What was your biggest fear? Biggest insecurity? 

In order to best reach our friends in middle school, it's important for us to remember what it was like for us in middle school. It would also be helpful to know what is currently going on in the mind and heart of a middle school student and how we can love them. 

Here's what I've discovered:
  • Kids are asking and wondering: Who cares about me? Where do I belong? Who will accept me? What’s my purpose? What am I good at? Am I good at anything?
  • Their identity is formed by who they are with.
  • We need to take their life experiences seriously, which may be more difficult for us. Don’t minimize their struggles, excitements, etc. For example: If Jimmy says to me, "Chao! I just lost a baby tooth!" My response should NOT be, "That's great Jimmy, I've lost all my baby teeth, so that's not a big deal. And I just paid my taxes." Instead we need to affirm their experiences, no matter how trivial they may seem to us.
  • They are in a stage in life where everything feels like they are experiencing it for the first time.
  • Middle school kids are in a stage psychologically and socially, where they are focused on “industry/competence.” They're learning if they are good at life. 
  • They develop a belief about who they are that carries with them for the rest of their life. They don’t know this, but this means that they are wondering, “Am I good at ____ or competent at _____?” 
  • They're focused on the question, “Am I able to do things well?” Kids are looking for things that they are good at, and if they are not good at it, they develop inferiority and their self-esteem may plummet. Thoughts of suicide stem from inferiority, which often starts in middle school.
  • Research is showing that a person decides if they are in general good at things or bad at things in middle school.
So, as you are with middle kids and thinking of club, Campaigners and contact work, let's make sure that we are taking kids seriously. That we are taking their experiences seriously, their faith seriously and their hearts seriously. They all need to know that they are valuable, so affirm them and let them know that God views them as good.

Join a Work Week at a Young Life Camp Near You

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If you've never been to a Young Life Work Week, this could be your year! They're only a couple weeks away so look at the dates below and mark your calendars. 

It's a great opportunity to add another YL shirt to your collection, to join old friends and make tons of new ones...and to help prepare summer camps for kids to experience the BEST WEEK OF THEIR LIVES!

Cost
FREE!! Your all-expense paid week will include housing, great food, club, fun activities, a t-shirt, and lots of hard but rewarding work!

Who
College-aged young adults looking for a fun, rewarding, community-filled time to start your summer while serving a Young Life camp.

What To Expect
Work projects in the morning and part of the afternoon, free time before dinner, club in the evenings with plenty of time to connect with each other.

Contact your camp to sign up! 

Carolina Point
May 18th-23rd

Castaway Club
May 24th-29th

Crooked Creek Ranch
May 14th-19th


Frontier Ranch
May 12th-18th

Lake Champion
May 23rd-27th

Lost Canyon
May 18th-23rd

Saranac Village
June 1st-June 4th

*SharpTop Cove
May 15th-19th
Check with your Area Director for availability!

*Southwind
Please contact camp directly for more information.

Timber Wolf Lake
May 9th-12th

Windy Gap
May 18th-23rd

Woodleaf 
March 20-24



If you know of other YL camp work weeks, let us know here.

Meet Next Year's Freshmen: 5 Ways to get 8th Graders to Club

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As you near the end of the school year, it's super strategic to invite 8th graders to one of your last clubs! In just a few months they'll be freshmen. Let's give them a taste now so they know what they have to look forward to as high school begins.

How To Get 8th Graders To Club

WyldLife
If you have WyldLife in your area, this makes the transition much easier. Send high schoolers to the WyldLife club to invite 8th graders to join them the following week.

Motivate With Vision
Talk to your Campaigners and Senior Leaders. Ask them to think about the people they know who are seniors who never got plugged into YL. Ask them to think about how different those folks' high school paths might've been had someone invited them to club when they were in 8th grade.

Motivate With Money
This morning at our team leader meeting I said out loud, 'I wish I had a $50 gift card to offer as a prize to motivate high schoolers to invite 8th graders.' As I walked out of Panera after the meeting I had a friend hand me a $50 Visa gift card. True story. 

Ask a parent, a donor, a friend if they would donate $50 to help change the lives of a bunch of middle schoolers. We're telling kids that if they bring an 8th grader to club on Monday they'll be entered to win the $50 Visa card. We'll put all the names of the 8th graders in a hat. If the 8th graders name is drawn, they get a YL shirt and the person who brought them wins the $50!

Siblings
Text all your high school friends and ask them who has a brother or sister in 8th grade. Make a list. Make sure they get their sibling to club.

Connections
Between your church, YL parents, and friends in town, odds are that you already know a teacher or administrator at the middle school. Ask them if they would spread the word at school. If they won't, find a parent who will be a champion on your behalf.


What To Do With 8th Graders At Club

Info
Make sure you get them to fill out a club card with legible handwriting. Put a box on there and ask if they would like to be contacted about doing YL events this summer.

Hero Vs. Chump
Be extra careful if you bring 8th graders on stage. It's fun with the right kid, but get the wrong one and they'll be embarrassed and never return. An easy way to do this is to play a game with siblings. Make the 8th graders heroes instead of chumps.

Meet the Parents
If 8th graders get dropped off, be sure to be out front before and after club meeting parents. Be confident. Ask them to roll down the car window. Introduce yourself. Thank them for coming. Give them a handout with info about Young Life. Put yourself in their shoes. Imagine dropping your child off with an adult you don't know. Make them feel at ease by explaining what YL is and what happens at club.

Next Step
Ask the 8th graders to follow your YL club on social media. Explain to them what the next event is that they can come to and how they will find out more info. Give them a "next step."

A Memorable Way to End the Year with Your Campaigners: The Campies

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This hilarious & meaningful Campaigners tradition is shared by Tom O'Neill, a volunteer leader in Sammamish, WA.

The Campies

For any fan of the TV show "The Office" you'll recognize this Campaigners tradition as inspired by Michael Scott's shenanigans. I was recently watching an episode of "The Dundies," an annual office award show. Michael Scott hosts the show and gives out awkward/hilarious awards while wearing a tuxedo.

That immediately made me think "this is pretty much a Young Life camp last dinner award show." With that "light bulb" moment, "The Campies" were born, a fusion of “The Dundies” and a camp program awards show. It’s a great way to cap off the school year with your Campaigners.

I invited all of my campaigner guys to attend the 1st Annual Campies and instructed them that the dress code was "unnecessarily formal." My co-leader, Warren, and I spent the morning of The Campies writing awards for each of our Campaigner guys. Many of them were inside jokes that had been developed over the years or happened in Campaigners that year (ex. “Better Late Than Never”, “Last Man Standing”, or “I’m a Lover not a Fighter.”)

Others were more serious, such as the coveted "Ironman Award" for the most YL events attended that year. I also always give the "Rookie of the Year" to someone who was new that year and became an integral part of the group. We make toasts (sparkling cider), take pictures looking quite dapper, and laugh a lot. We then talk about some of our favorite moments in Campaigners and what God had taught each of us that year.

This has now become a favorite tradition and something the boys look forward to each May. One of them was crushed when he was beat out for "Ironman" because he had sports conflicts.

A couple tips if you're considering doing something similar:

  • Hammer home the dress code and do it big yourself. It makes things more ridiculous and makes the pictures stand out on social media. Kids' friends always wonder what went down at "The Campies" and start asking about it.
  • Invite an amateur photographer or just someone with a nice camera to come shoot photos. Go paparazzi with photos as they enter and of course some posed shots.
  • Spend a good amount of time writing the awards. Think camp-style: Presented by Inside Joke, Reverse Inside Joke, Program Character #1, Program Character #2 etc. Maybe even get some help from another leader, two minds are often funnier than one.
  • Be sensitive to what is funny and what is offensive. An extra laugh is not worth a hurt kid. Err on the safe side and consider the relationship you have with each kid. Find ways to celebrate kids while making light of something ridiculous.
  • Get RSVPs ahead of time, so you know who you need to write an award for. I always print a few blank ones in case I need to hand write one last minute too.
Good luck, and go celebrate your Campaigner kids!

Thanks for sharing this great idea Tom! If you have any YL traditions you'd like to pass along, here's how you submit a guest post.

Should Introverts Be Young Life Leaders?

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My friend Tim Branch has just finished writing a short e-book for introverted Young Life leaders and I know it's going to be a huge gift to many of you. You can download it here and read a teaser below. -Drew Hill

Here’s the thing about introverts: We don’t always love the spotlight.

We don’t always love meeting new people. We’re more comfortable being introduced at parties. And half the time, we’re a lot more comfortable holed up in our room with a book than killing it in the middle of the dance circle after Young Life club.

So what does that mean about us? Does it mean we won’t ever make great Young Life leaders?

If you’re feeling insecure about your ministry for any reason, you’ve probably asked yourself this question recently. So let’s answer it: Can introverts actually make good Young Life leaders? You bet they can.

And not only that—they’re a necessary part of any healthy Young Life team. Here’s why: High schoolers come in all shapes, sizes, and types. That means high schoolers need leaders of all shapes, sizes, and types. Take a second to imagine your Young Life club.

What kinds of kids do you see? Are there crazy, outgoing, wild kids there? Probably. Are there kids who stand next to the crazy, outgoing, wild kids, who don’t have quite as much energy? Yep. Now look over at the wall. Are there some quiet kids leaning on the wall back there who don’t feel comfortable in this high-energy social situation?

Those kids need a leader who understands them. Someone who won’t overwhelm them. Who do you think is going to connect best with them?

As an introvert, I found I connected with these kids almost instantly. And actually, I experienced a renewed sense of passion and excitement for Young Life after I started pursuing them.

Having a person who can connect with the quieter kids at club is incredibly beneficial for the team.

One of the things we always strive for in Young Life is having a club that looks like the school. And in order to truly connect with every type of hurting high school kid, teams need a diverse group of leaders with a diverse group of gifts.

So are introverts good Young Life leaders? Of course they are.

Being introverted gives you the ability to connect with certain people in a way extroverts can’t. Just like extroverts can connect more deeply with a whole different group of people.

I wish I had known this when I first started leading.

That’s why I just finished a free 27-page eBook for people who don’t feel like their ministry fits the mold. It’s called Am I Really Cut Out for Young Life? An Introvert’s Thoughts on Being a Leader, andyou can download it here.

If you’re feeling insecure about your ministry, or you know someone who is, check it out and pass it on.

I wrote it because I’ve seen too many amazing people with so much to give quit leading because they didn’t feel like they were right for ministry. When the truth is, they’re perfect for it.

Encourage an introverted leader today. The team will be stronger for it. 

-Tim Branch

WyldLife Camp: 6 Tips for Leaders

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Written by Bekah Siau, Area Director with YL Military at West Point, NY and Dylan Kelly, volunteer leader

Wyldlife camping has some unique challenges, so here are a few tips to consider as you prepare.

Pray
Ask the Lord to break your heart for the students coming on the trip. Expect Him to work in their hearts. Pray for them by name daily. Ask Him to give you eyes to see them as He sees them.

Contact Work
Spend as much time with students before the trip as possible. Even if you don’t currently lead in their club. Make the sacrifices to be present whenever possible. Your conversations will be richer and your days at camp sweeter!

Be the Leader
Take your role seriously. You aren’t a chaperone, you are their leader!

College-age and high-school-age leaders: 
You are expected to be the adult in the cabin. Even if you don’t feel like an adult yet, parents are trusting you to care for their kids. We need to be good stewards and care for our middle school friends well! 

Practical ways to do that:
  • Make sure they shower regularly and brush their teeth daily. 
  • Help them keep track of their stuff.
  • Don’t let them stay up all night.
  • Don't allow them to eat too much candy.
  • Keep them safe.
  • Make sure they wear sunscreen. 
  • Make sure they eat real food and stay hydrated! (Pro tip: FILL UP THEIR GLASSES WITH WATER BEFORE THEY COME IN FOR EACH MEAL and make them drink it before they get juice. Just do it!) 

Parent volunteers and adult leaders: 
If you are a parent volunteer or another adult, you already do the above really well, but don’t forget that you are also their WyldLife leader, not just a chaperone. You can be silly in the skits, get your cabin pumped up for activities, and be a participant right alongside your middle school friends, experiencing camp with them!

Speak of Jesus 
Invite kids into relationship with Jesus. It might seem impossible to get your friends to sit still in a circle on the floor each night to have cabin time, but try anyways. Be encouraged that 10 minutes of sit-down time with a group of seventh graders is a victory! 

Come Prepared 
If you take cabin time and one-on-one conversations seriously, so will they! Take their questions, feelings and concerns seriously and spend time with them processing the gospel, individually and in groups. Make sure you are prepared to help middle school friends process the gospel.

Rely
Even if you feel ill-equipped, unprepared, and inadequate as a leader, know that God will use you. He doesn't use you because of what you can do, but despite your weaknesses. Rely on Him.
Also, know that your head leaders will walk you through your five days of camp. They are there to answer your questions, encourage you, help you address challenges as they come up, and guide you through camp, one day at a time. 

Stay close to Jesus and let the Lord use you! You are my heroes! Our middle school friends are desperate for someone to love them like you do and to share the gospel with them! 

-Bekah Siau

7 People to Thank: The Notes YL Leaders Write as the Semester Ends

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As the school year ends, let's consider the many folks we as Young Life leaders can thank.

Administration
The principal at your school didn't have to let you come to lunch. Send them a note with a $10 Subway gift card saying "Thanks for letting us eat lunch with your kids this year. Enjoy a lunch on us this summer. Sincerely, the Smith Middle Young Life Team."

Athletic Director
Remember those free athletic passes your YL team got at the beginning of the year. Think how much $ they saved you. What about a picture of your YL team holding a sign saying "We heart Coach Mac" for the AD's office?

Club/Campaigners Host Homes
That family let you have fifty middle schoolers invade their basement. That mom cooked dinner for your Campaigners group more times than you can count. That dad is still repairing the damage from when that sumo-suit put a crater in his garage wall. How bout a Home Depot gift card with a note attached?

Area Director
Being a Young Life Area Director is no easy task. Area Directors spend tons of time making it possible for us to be leaders. Send them a note of encouragement thanking them for leading well and be specific about how they've encouraged you.

Spouse
If you're married, make the effort to thank your spouse for allowing you to pursue this calling. What if you gathered some of your high school friends to put on a mini 'YL club' for the purpose of celebrating your spouse? Or how about a needed date night now that club is taking a summer break?

Middle/High School Friend
Do you have some kids in your YL club that went the extra mile to help out at Young Life this year? Model gratitude for them by sending an unexpected note. Print a pic of you with your middle/high school friend and turn it into a postcard.

Jesus
Celebrate this year by thanking the One who made it all possible. In our home we have an "Ebeneezer." It's simply a wall with pictures and words that reminds us of God's faithfulness.  In 1 Samuel 7, the Israelites were under attack by the Philistines. Fearing for their lives, they offered a sacrifice to God and prayed for His protection. God listened and following their victory they “took a stone and set it up between Mizpah and Shen, and called its name Ebenezer, saying, ‘Thus far the Lord has helped us.’ ” (1 Samuel 7:12)

The word Ebenezer comes from a Hebrew word meaning “stone of help.” In the familiar hymn “Come Thou Fount” we sing the phrase “Here I raise my Ebenezer, here by thy great help I’ve come.” An Ebenezer is simply something to help us remember God’s faithfulness and mercy. Wonder how one might look on a wall in your bedroom or at the YL office?


-Drew Hill

Just Plain Hilarious: Using Dental Surgery Mouthguards In Club

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A friend recently shared with me this video of James Corden and Melissa McCarthy on The Late Late Show. 



It would make a hilarious skit at club. All you need to do is swing by your dentist office and pickup some mouth guards. I haven't found where you can order these online, but if you know, email me here

You could use it in a number of ways at club:

  • Give the announcements wearing the mouth guard.
  • Have your club song leader wear it while leading a fun song set.
  • Have a poetry reading game where contestants have to wear the mouth guards. 
  • Have a 2 liter drinking contest.
  • The possibilities are endless. If you think of others to share, let us know.

How to Help Middle Schoolers Transition from WyldLife To Young Life

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Written by, Randy Giusta, Area Director, San Diego North, CA

There are a few constants in the ministries of Young Life and WyldLife. One is that it is relational, and another is that kids grow up and go through transitions. So how do we maximize the numbers of kids who make the transition from WyldLife to Young Life?

Here are a few things we've discovered in our area over the last 43 years running "YoungerLife" and WyldLife clubs. (We called them YoungerLife until Young Life branded the ministry WyldLife.)

Beginning with the constant of relational ministry, we have worked hard at developing relationships between high school students and middle school students. The bulk of our WyldLife leaders are high school students, but historically, most of our WyldLife leaders graduate as their WyldLife students are making the transition to high school. If we didn't address this fact, the new ninth graders would not know any of the Young Life leaders as they entered high school. We need to introduce our WyldLifers to our younger high school friends who can befriend them in high school.

Junior Leaders
So, what we have done at Oakbridge summer camp is to pair “junior” leaders with our senior leaders. These leaders have not typically been leaders during the school year, but they are moving toward being WyldLife leaders in the fall and helping with the transition from middle school to high school. As the WyldLifers enter high school, they will have some sophomore, junior and senior “big brothers and sisters" they met at camp to help them to make the transition.

These "big brothers and sisters" will invite them to our lunch clubs at the high schools and our traditional evening clubs in the homes of students. These high school friends will help them to find their classes the first week of school, invite them to school functions, and encourage them to get connected to the right group of friends.

As we've done this, we have seen the number of healthy transitions grow significantly. We have noticed a positive impact on the junior leaders as well as in the incoming ninth graders.

Club Cards
Another simple thing that has been a tremendous help is that we use club cards almost obsessively, and one of the key entries is the year of graduation. Once we collect club cards, I add all of our kids’ information into Apple Contacts, and in the “notes” area I include the year of graduation.

At the end of this year, I will type “2020” in my spotlight, and all transitioning eighth graders will appear. I then text each of them and ask them what high school they will be attending in the fall. I drag their names to that high school in my contacts, and done! They are now receiving weekly texts inviting them to our lunch clubs, evening clubs, and activities. I will do the same with the class of 2016, asking them what college they plan to attend and then passing the information on to our YL College staff. I also drag and drop them into our “Alumni” group.

What have you done to be intentional and help your WyldLife kids transition to Young Life? Share your ideas with us and we can add them to this post.

The Complete Guide to a YL'd Bus Ride: 21 Ideas for a Road Trip to Remember

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Many of us have LONG bus rides to camp this summer. Instead of just enduring the ride, let's make it a highlight of the trip. Below are a ton of ideas stolen from many different YL leaders over the years. Start planning now! 

1. Bus Program

Have you ever done program...ON A BUS?! Here is a full script, music suggestions, and all you need to know to pull off Bus-Program. It's worth doing! How To Do Bus Program: A Run-on Skit For Your Ride To Camp

2. Bus Club

Why not? You probably already have a guitar on the bus. You can put song lyrics on PowerPoint and link your laptop to the screens. You've already got your Bus Program planned for you here, and you've got tons of games below. Just add a short talk if desired and you've got Club-On-A-Bus!

3. Great Pit Stops

Thanks to YL Area Director Zach Kreeger for writing down some fun ideas of places for the bus to stop all across the country: Where To Stop On The Way To Camp

4. On The Road Again

The bus will stop fairly often. After those food/potty breaks, it's an old YL tradition to play Willie Nelson's "On The Road Again" as soon as the bus starts driving. The first two times you play it, kids might not even notice. By the third time, they'll start to sing along. At the 13-hour driving mark, on your 5th stop, the kids will start booing, demanding you turn the song off. By the 12th stop, on your way home from camp, you'll intentionally not play it...and kids will boo again, this time demanding it. It will become like Pavlov's dog. How can the bus possibly move without Willie singing us along? Years from now, when these campers are parents themselves, they'll hear ol' Willie on the radio and remember The Best Week of Their Lives.

5. Mixers/Games

It's easy to get stuck in your seat on the back of the bus and miss out on opportunities to meet new folks sitting up front. Odds are you have kids from multiple schools on one bus. Help them get to know one another before they get to camp. It will make their camp experience even better. Also, those relationships will motivate kids to be at All-Area events like Summer Campaigners when you get back home.

6. Bus Trivia

Here are 50 questions for you to use to get those brains cranking.

7. Prizes

Everyone is more motivated to play when prizes are involved. You could offer some sweet incentives like $ to the camp store or a free milkshake at the snack shop. One way to keep them involved is to make a poster board with each camper's name. After each game, award each winner a sticky star. By the trip's end, whoever has the most sticky stars wins the prize!

8. Blanket Drop

My favorite opening mixer to do on a bus is Blanket Drop. It's a great way to make sure everyone knows everyone's name. Divide into two teams, front of the bus & back of the bus. Two leaders hold a blanket up from ceiling to floor. Each team puts one person in front of the blanket on each side. On the count of three, the leaders drop the blanket. Each person tries to say the other person's name standing on the other side of the blanket first. The faster person steals the other and brings that person on their side. The team with the most people wins. You can also play without stealing people and just play to 10 points. Before the game begins, make sure you give a good 5 minutes for people to walk around and learn first names.

9. PowerPoint Games

If you bring an adapter, it's easy to connect your laptop to most bus DVD player setups. If so, you can play some PowerPoint games and make them into contests for prizes. Chad Swanzy has some good free downloadable PowerPoint games at YouthLeaderStash.com You can also download some free ones here.

10. Mafia

If you're a Young Life leader, you've probably played Mafia. If not, here are the rules. All you need is a deck of cards.

11. Bus Bingo

This is a great mixer to help folks get to know one another. If you can swing it, I'd create your own version based on the kids going on your trip. In the past, we took one specific fact about each person on the bus and had folks try to figure out who it was.

12. Two Truths & A Lie

This is another great way to help everyone on the bus get to know one another. Just as we spotlight kids by pulling them on stage at camp, why not do it on the bus? Give each of your friends a chance to hold the mic. They'll share 2 truths about themselves and 1 lie, in random order. Everyone on the bus will get to guess which is the lie.

13. Most Embarrassing Moment

Another similar activity is to have everyone write down their most embarrassing memory. Collect them, then select the best ones. Pull up 3 people to whom the embarrassing moment could have potentially happened. Read the story out loud. Then give each a chance to explain more about what actually happened. 2 of them will be lying, trying to pawn the story as their own. After all 3 have shared, offer a time for questions from the crowd. Then reveal the actual victim.

14. Would You Rather

Give a scenario like "Would you rather have 10 inch fingernails or 10 inch toenails. If you’d rather have 10 inch toenails go on this side of the bus, if you’d rather have 10 inch fingernails go on this side of the bus”. Divide it up long ways so people don’t have to walk down the aisle to the front or back of the bus. There are quite a few websites and apps that can help you create questions, but better yet, why not gather a few kids at the front of the bus and let them own this game, coming up with their own questions for everyone?

15. Bus Idol

Make your own version of American Idol or The Voice! Search YouTube for Karaoke tracks of fun songs.

16. Rap Battle/Poetry Jam/Song Contest

Have kids write raps/poems about the trip and read them on the mic in front of everyone. A few years back we had 2 guys who rewrote the lyrics to "Hey There Delilah" and changed it to "Hey There Bus Driver." They played guitar and sang it in the mic. Our driver loved it! The possibilities are endless.

17. Who Am I?

Similar to 20 Questions: Someone is "it" and thinks of a person, real or fictional, and others try to guess who they are with questions that can only be answered yes or no. A yes answer entitles you to another question, a no means the next person tries until someone guesses the correct character.

18. Mustache Contest

Whoever captures the best random mustache on camera, while at a travel stop, wins a fake mustache to wear proudly at camp.

19. Happy Driver

Make sure to get on the good side of your bus driver so he/she will give you freedom to make the bus ride fun. A good way to make them happy is to keep that bus clean. Bring extra trash bags and collect it often!

20. Drinks/Snacks

If you have awhile between stops, it's helpful to have a cooler with cold drinks/snacks. Tell kids ahead of time if you're planning on selling them. You don't want to hear "I paid $800 for this trip, I deserve a free coke."

21. Music

You can also play these songs you'll be singing at club on the speakers of the bus, so kids begin to learn them!

The possibilities never end. Just take club games and change them to make them work on a bus. Don't settle for a movie marathon, make that ride one they won't soon forget!


Also, if you have a new leader you're wanting to place- the bus ride to camp is a fun place to introduce them for the first time. Here's how we did it: Random Bus Passenger. -Drew 

The Collision of Silence and May

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Written by John Holmes, Associate Regional Director, St. Louis, MO.

May is a busy month; maybe one of the busiest months of the year. Everything seems to collide all at once; end of the year Clubs, golf tournaments, leader parties, donor meetings, camp sign-ups…….and the list goes on and on. In the midst of all that, there are still the countless number of kids that need our time and attention. Many of our local leaders and staff in St. Louis are frantically trying to tie up loose ends on many fronts. One leader told me he is counting down the days until he can “exhale.”

I’ve been pondering the word “exhale” lately; considering what that looks like in my own life. I admit that most days in May I’m simply trying to catch my breath as I race from one activity to the next. Even when I think I have time and space to exhale, something urgent always creeps in, and gets in the way.

However, this week at our Regional Staff conference, we were given the gift of solitude; 18 hours of undistracted, unstructured solitude. I can’t recall the last time I took that much time to simply focus on my life and my walk with Christ. At first I was resistant to it. I immediately thought of all the emails and calls I would not be making. Even more so, I wondered what it would be like to simply sit, walk, pray, and ponder the deepest parts of me. I confess that I often avoid that level of contemplation; I’m afraid of what I might discover. After settling in though, a couple of scriptures came to my mind. The first was Psalm 46:10, which says “Be still and know that I am God.” That verse reminded me to pray the distractions out of my head, and to listen for the still small voice of God. I was then brought to another verse from Matthew 3:17, where God the Father says to Jesus, “This is my beloved son, in whom I am well pleased.” As I read that verse over several times, it hit me; God delights in me, and loves me. It doesn’t matter to Him whether I accomplish every pressing task, make every “urgent” phone call, or show up for every year-end gathering. He simply invites me to slow down, to be still, and to listen to Him whisper, ‘This is my beloved son in whom I am well pleased.”

We are beloved sons and daughters of the most high King. And that is enough. There is nothing you will do (or not do) in this crazy month to change that truth. God delights in you and calls you His own. My prayer for you is that in this month, when many of us are simply trying to catch our breath and keep our heads above water, is that we pause long enough to exhale; pause long enough in silence to hear God’s voice say, “You are my beloved.”
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