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YL Store: The Vault Is Open

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In celebration of the 75th birthday of YL, for this year ONLY, the vault is open and The Young Life Store can produce the old Young Life logos exclusively! The YL store is able to customize these old logos for your next camp trip, area fundraiser, banquet or Tonite tee! 

To take the guess work out of it, the store has come up with a few different designs, but if you’re feeling creative let the YL store know what you want and they'll mock it up for you for FREE! 

Call them at 1-800-266-1665 or visit the custom section to see the LIMITED Edition logo tees! Looking for one that’s already in stock? Check out the YL75 gear and see all the limited edition products to celebrate Young Life’s 75 years!

*The Young Life 75th logo is included with all vintage logo designs to help Young Life celebrate 75 years!

Camp Musician Of The Month: S. Martin

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Our featured camp musician for the month of March is S. Martin. He started attending Young Life in high school and has been hooked ever since. As a middle school student in WyldLife, he attended Timber Wolf Lake and he remembers Jon McLaughlin was his camp musician. While watching Jon use music to connect with people and share his story, he left dreaming of one day being in those shoes on that same stage.

Some eight years later he was invited to perform at Timber Wolf Lake and the rest is history. Since then, he has done fall and winter weekends, banquets, benefit concerts, and summer assignments all over the United States.

"My music is intentionally rooted in a common theme: You matter.You're worth it. And you are loved so much more than you'll ever know."

He loves how the Young Life family never fails in bringing the energy to every single club. He is looking forward to heading back to Timber Wolf Lake for Session 3 this Summer!

  • S. Martin's newest album, Cicatrix, is available here on iTunes.
  • Visit S. Martin’s website here.
  • Follow S. Martin on Twitter here: @_Spener
  • Listen to music from S. Martin here.
  • Email S. Martin to play at your Young Life camp or banquet.

What other Area Directors are saying about S. Martin:

"Spencer is one of us. As a Young Life musician, he is first and foremost a volunteer Young Life leader and has been for years. He loves Christ and kids. Spencer gets rave reviews from his weekend and summer camp special music assignments, and he has played for many other local Young Life events around the country. I encourage you to take a listen." -Chris Theule-VanDam Regional Director, Young Life

"S. Martin (aka Spencer) is truly a gift to this ministry. I had the pleasure of serving on assignment with him this past Summer. Spencer is a very talented musician, and, even more so, a talented story teller. His songs and presence on stage draw teenagers in. His lyrics beautifully set up the Gospel, too. He made himself available to staff and campers in a way that I've never seen from a musician. Spencer is the ultimate team player as well. He gave generously of his time outside of his musical 'commitments.' (Just ask him about the time he had a heat stroke from wearing a panda costume). And, my favorite thing about Spencer is his desire to live life to the full. His passion for the Lord and for others is infectious!" -Tyler Mallory, Young Life Area Director, Hinsdale, IL

Spencer is a gem within the Midwest. Spencer is a genuine person whom I had the privilege of serving with at Michindoh last summer. His original songs, ability to lead club music, willingness to help with program, and personality are all noteworthy, but the fact that he sat where many of these students at camp sat when he was younger, keeps him grounded in what a camp musician can offer to a camp (presenting the Gospel, loving students & leaders well, remembering names, and giving students a soundtrack to remember their week by). His music speaks for itself, but the things I love most about Spencer are those moments I saw where he engaged with students & leaders throughout the week. Spencer lives a good story. He travels the world and on top of it all, brings his music into the lives of many. -Ryan Soderberg, Area Director, Young Life Wauwatosa (WI)


Tomorrow Is $1 Hot Dogs At Sonic

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Hot diggity dog, just $1 each?! Pick up your middle and high school friends from school tomorrow (Wed. March 23) and hop on over to SONIC for a $1 hot dog. 

Includes only 6-inch Chili Cheese Coney and All-American Hot Dogs. Tax not included. Add-ons cost extra. Cannot be combined with other offers. Limit 5. Offer valid all day at participating SONIC Drive-Ins.

WyldLife Wednesday: The 5 P's of Contact Work

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Pic from Dan Stern in Lapeer, MI. 
There is no substitute for contact work – it’s what allows us to build relationships and earn the right to talk with kids about Jesus. Below are 5 contact work pointers for WyldLife leaders.

Parents
In addition to getting to know middle schoolers, build relationships with their parents too. If you’re at a game, spend time in both the student section and the parent section. Parents are the “gatekeepers” of their middle school kids. They make decisions about schedules and friends so parents need to know you if they are going to trust you with their kids.

Plan
It’s almost impossible to be spontaneous with middle school kids. Instead, call their parents ahead of time and make a plan. That means you’ll need to ask for parents’ phone numbers on club cards – not just kids’ cell phones.

Party
When you plan activities, it's best to do things in groups. Some middle school kids can be uncomfortable in one-on-one settings. So when starting contact work, go to games and school events where you’ll find crowds of middle school kids. Or call parents early in the week and plan a pizza night for a small group. As you get to know kids, you’ll learn which kids are comfortable joining you in twos or threes - and you’ll also find a few kids who are fine hanging out with just you.

Process
Conversations with middle school kids are unique. Early adolescents can’t always verbalize what they're thinking, but they can and do process what they hear. Be encouraged by short spiritual conversations with kids.

Possibilities
Be creative in the ways you spend time with kids. Since middle school kids can’t drive, offer to drive them to practice or the mall. They’ll love pulling up with someone other than a parent, and you get some great time to talk along the way. Help them with homework. Volunteer at their school. Practice a sport with them. Get creative, the possibilities are endless!

Fresh Contact Work Ideas for Spring Time

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Spring has arrived! If you need some fun, fresh, & frugal contact work ideas, you're in luck. Grab your middle and high school friends and make some memories.

Dog Park/Animal Shelter
If you have a dog, take your dog and some of your middle and high school friends to a local dog park. If you don't have a dog, visit a local pet store or animal shelter.

Putt, Pitch, Punish 
(The Happy Gilmore Young Life Invitational Golf Tournament)

Grab a group of middle or high school friends, a bag of golf clubs, and $15. Kids need no prior golf experience to enjoy this outing. Head to a local golf course that has a driving range, putting green, and chipping hole. Pay $5 to rent a bucket of balls. Hold three separate contests. 

Putting
Start with putting. Practice, warm up and design a 6 hole putt-putt course on the putting green. Lowest score on the 6 holes wins a $3 milkshake afterwards. 

Pitching
Pick a hole, either on the chipping green or driving range. Each participant gets 10 shots. Closest to the pin wins a shake. 

Punish
Finish with the Punish Contest. Whoever can simply drive a golf ball the farthest wins. Each kid gets 10 balls. 

After all 3 contests are over head to a local restaurant to celebrate the 3 winners and buy them milkshakes. You can also spice up the outing by encouraging guys to dress 'golfy.' Call the golf course ahead of time and ask permission. If you go during a low traffic time, like 5pm, most courses will give you the green light.

Foot Golf
Another fun twist on golf is the new and fast growing sport of soccer-golf or FOOT GOLF. Here's an article explaining the game, but it's basically playing golf with a soccer ball and your foot on a real course. I've yet to play, but it sounds amazing.

Stick Ball

My personal favorite. It's simply a twist on baseball, playing on a tennis court with a broom handle and tennis balls. Buy a wooden broom and unscrew the handle from the bottom bristles. Use it for the bat and grab 6 tennis balls. It's much harder than it looks to hit a tennis ball with a skinny broom handle. Watching people strike out is funny. Hit it over the tennis court fence for an automatic home-run. 3 strikes and you're out, pretty much the same rules as baseball except only 2 bases, the net and home plate. Trust me, its a winner. We played a ton last spring/summer. It became a YL tradition.

Hiking
Take a group hiking. Ask your local outdoor store for advice on a good trail.


KanJam
KanJam is a fun and simple frisbee game. Think 2 on 2 Ultimate Frisbee in the back alley with trash cans as your end zone. Set it up in the parking lot of the local late night hang out spot beside a set of corn hole boards. You and your high school friends can be entertained for hours. It's also a great pre-club hangout idea.

Build Your Own Frisbee Golf Course
Some friends and I recently mapped out a frisbee golf course around the local university. "Throw off the parking deck and hit the middle column on that building, par 4." It's free fun...unless you accidentally dent other people's cars with your frisbee.

Cards On A Roof
Find a mostly flat roof on a not so windy night. Grab a few high school friends, a blanket (or lawn chairs and a folding table) and some playing cards. Add a set of iPhone speakers and 6 pack of Stewart's Orange n Cream Soda. Bam. A night to remember.

Dizzy Shoe Game
Thanks to Mackenzie Olson for submitting this idea. Mackenzie writes, "Anytime we're at camp or when there is nothing around to do, I like to con kids into playing the Dizzy Shoe Game. But I don’t call it that… I only ask if they want to play a game. I make everyone put one of their shoes, or a stick, over their head and make them look at it (this is key to the game- the looking up part) and I make them spin around as fast as they can 15 times. Always screaming for them to spin faster. Once they get to 15 they are to throw the shoe and attempt to jump over it. If they truly looked up, and truly spun 15 times quickly, there is zero chance of succeeding and 100 percent chance of laughing very hard. A word of Caution: this is ALWAYS to be done on grass." Thanks Mackenzie for this fun idea. I've already used it multiple times when hanging out with my high school friends and it's been hilarious.

And of course...


You can always build an Eno village or
play some Spikeball!

If you have other ideas to add email me here. -Drew Hill

The Top 5 Excuses Kids Make for Not Going to Camp (and how to respond)

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It's not too late to get your middle and high school friends signed up for the BEST WEEK OF THEIR LIVES!

This week on the blog we'll look at the top five excuses kids make for not going to camp. Today we look at how to respond to the first.

  1. My friends aren't going
  2. I don't have the money
  3. My parents won't let me
  4. I have schedule conflicts
  5. I'm afraid of the unknown

The Problem: My friends aren't going

This is the big one and it makes total sense. We wouldn't go to a two hour party, much less an eight day trip, if none of our friends were going. So why should we expect our middle and high school friends to do the same?

The Solution: Getting them to go with a group of their friends

One way I've found to make this happen is by making a smaller ask. Asking kids to pay hundreds of dollars and commit a week of their short summer is a big request. Asking kids to meet for dinner is much more doable.

Why not invite a group of your high school friends over next weekend for a cookout? Co-ed groups can actually work better because when you get the gals to go, the guys will want to go, and vice versa. After you've had fun hanging out at the cookout, invite them inside for a short surprise presentation.

Below are some keys to the presentation.

Full Disclosure

Open with a short speech: "Ok, I'm going to be honest with y'all, I invited you here tonight for a cookout, but I have so much fun hanging with y'all that I didn't want it to end, so in addition to us spending 2 hours together tonight, I wanted to seize the moment and ask you to give me 20 minutes to convince you to spend 200 hours with me this summer."

Camp Video

Don't show the 2 minute camp video you've been showing as a promo at club. Instead, show the video scrapbook from last summer, starring people they know and recognize from their high school. Yeah, it will spoil a few of the surprises, but it's a small price to pay for the powerful impact it will have on showing them what they're missing out on.

Camper Testimony

Get a camper who went last year to come and share a few reasons why they think everyone should go. Prep the student ahead of time and practice their pitch with them. 

Over-Communicate

In addition to handing them camp forms, send home with them a personalize letter detailing the fundraising plan and anticipating questions parents might ask.

Next Step

Give them an immediate next step with incentive. Talk with your AD and see if the area can throw any camp scholarship $ at this (or better yet, try to raise it yourself.) Then offer $50 off camp to the first two folks to bring you a filled out form along with the deposit. Once you knock down two dominoes, the rest start to fall.

We've got to realize that individually most high schoolers aren't going to call their friends and say "Let's go on this trip together." Few have the confidence to do that. But if you get them in the same room, all nodding their heads at the same time, that fear of being alone quickly fades.

As Rindercella would say, "The storal of the moray is this..."

Make an initial smaller ask.

Instead of asking for a camp deposit and a week of their life, convince them to give you two hours for a free burger. Once you can get their attention in a smaller non-club environment, you'll have the platform to make the bigger ask.

Tomorrow we'll look at how to address the fundraising problem.

The 10 Best Fundraisers for Camp

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This week on the blog we're looking at the top five excuses kids make for not going to camp. If you missed the first one, click here. Today we're looking at how to respond to the $$$ problem.

  1. My friends aren't going
  2. I don't have the money
  3. My parents won't let me
  4. I have schedule conflicts
  5. I'm afraid of the unknown

Money is a huge stressor in most teenagers' lives. When they see camp flyers they tend to skip everything and focus right on the $$$ amount.

"There's NO WAY my parents can afford that!"

"I'm already saving for a car."

"I still owe $300 for my drinking ticket and lawyer."

We can go blue in the face telling kids "Don't let money keep you from going!" BUT... until we show them (and their parents) a plan for how we're going to raise the cash flow, our words are empty promises.

How To OVER Communicate The Plan

  • Create information in an online format that is easily accessible for parents. Here's an example blogpost we shared with parents last year. 
  • Make a simple video of yourself explaining how the fundraisers work. Link to the video on your area's YL site.
  • Make hard copies of the plan. Keep them in your car so you can be prepared to give them to a parent or potential camper along with the camp registration form.
  • Include the fundraising plan on the back of your camp flyers.
  • Make individual phone calls to parents. Give them the website to visit so you can both view the plan as you walk them through it.

The Fundraising Plan

  • Lay out the total cost
  • Ask them to pay the deposit
  • Ask them what additional amount they can pay
Break down the fundraisers with practical examples of how they could raise the remainder along with how much time it would take.

Example:

$799 (Total Cost)
- $150 (deposit)
- $100 (could pay additional)
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$550 (left to raise)

- $50 (from carwash donations: 3 hrs)
- $175 (Trash-A-Thon sponsors, 7 people giving $25 each: 3 hrs)
- $150 (Selling greeting cards, coupon books or Yankee Candles: 5 hrs)
- $100 (YL Yard Sale: 4 hrs)
- $75 (Yard work for a friend of YL: 4 hrs)
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$0 remaining camp balance after 19 hours of work


GREAT FUNDRAISERS

The truth is that most fundraisers don't raise as much money as you hope... and they take a lot of effort, so doing fundraisers can be discouraging... UNLESS you realize that fundraising together is part of the journey, it's contact work, it's making memories, it's relationship-building, it's showing kids that you so badly want to spend a week with them that you're willing to work your tail off WITH THEM to make that happen. 

Greeting Card Boxes

The most successful fundraiser I've done in the past few years is selling greeting card boxes. One of your campers can make $350 by selling 20 of these boxes! 
  • Order 100 of boxes ($7.50/box) 
  • Sell them for $25/box ($1/card- way cheaper than Hallmark) because there are 25 (REALLY NICE) All-Occasion greeting cards in each one (along with a nice decorative storage box that they come in.) 
  • Profit margin= $17.50/box.
Sitting in front of businesses (like Chick-Fil-A or a grocery store) works great to sell them quickly. Make sure you get permission ahead of time from the management. Lowes Foods & Harris Teeter asked me to call headquarters and both turned me down because they have limited solicitation spots and I called too late. In the past King Soopers and Safeway both gave me permission, granted by the in-store managers.

Some of the adult leaders on our team placed them at their offices and churches. Have your high school friends knock on the doors of their friends and ask their parents. It's really a good product for a fair price. It's almost the same price as Amazon.

Download the Customer Data Sheet.

If you have questions, email Rebecca at Paper Magic. She's great and has worked with Young Life in the past. 


Mulch Spreading/Pressure Washing Combo

Last spring we had great success spreading mulch and pressure washing sidewalks, homes and driveways. Make a flyer and have kids pass them out in their neighborhoods. Get a group of guys together on a Saturday morning, borrow a pressure washer and rotate jobs (pulling weeds, pressure washing, and spreading mulch) so no one gets bored. Bring a bluetooth speaker because good music makes working more fun. After you get done, ask the folks you worked for to make a tax-deductible donation to YL and split in among the campership for all the workers! 


Carwash

Location is key. Find a busy road and ask to use a parking lot in view of the road. We've had success with Chick-fil-a, Walmart, and grocery stores in the past.

You will probably make a total of $200-$400 in donations if you have 20 kids wash cars for 3 hrs. That's not even minimum wage per kid. In order to boost the kitty, you can find donors to match donations or have kids get sponsors.

The Best Carwash Secret: About 2 hrs in, when kids are getting tired and discouraged by the $2-$5 donations, have a pre-arranged friend show up to get their car washed. They were going to donate $100 to campership anyway, why not throw a $100 bill in the pot and encourage the kids to keep going strong for the last hour.

Another way to increase earnings is to have kids get sponsors. Ask Aunt Ruthie to make a tax-deductible donation of $1 for every car lil Johnny washes. Wash 50 cars= $50. Get 5 folks to do that and you've raised $250 in 3 hours! 


Yard Sale

Publicize well. Start early in the morning. Yard sale shoppers are crazy people and typically get going by 6:30am.  Make sure you have lots of stuff to sell. Go to churches, neighbors, family, friends and collect people's junk. Three weeks before the Yard Sale designate a place where you can store the goods, maybe an unused classroom in a church? Have the campers label every item they brought so when customers check out, the parent cashier knows where to credit the $. Split the money of the other donated stuff between all your workers.


Support Letters

Last week we got a letter in the mail from a friend who is a YL leader in another area asking for $ to help take his high school friends to camp. We sent him some. Why? Because I can't think of a much better investment to make in someone's life. If you ask your friends and cast vision for them as to how incredible an investment this will be in a high school student's life, they will support you. Ask your high school friends to send out letters too.


Odd Jobs For "Friends Of YL"

Jim Rayburn started a movement 75 years ago that has impacted millions of lives. There are 60 year olds in your community who still remember their first YL camp experience. Now they have good jobs and love to give away tax-deductible money. They would love for you to move that pile of wood from under their deck or pick weeds out of their garden. Just ask. They'll pay your high school friends way more than they deserve because they learned 30 years ago at YL camp about this thing called grace that changed their life forever.


Trash-A-Thon

Find sponsors per back of trash you pick up to clean up the highway. One of our gals made $350 in an hour doing this last weekend.


Bowl-A-Thon

A fun YL outing to do after club has stopped for the year! Kids and leaders both can get pledges per pin they would bowl over three games. Most kids get pledges of 5-10 cents per pin. If a student gets around $2 per pin in total sponsorships and knock down 300 pins in 3 games, that's $600! You can also get businesses to be lane sponsors (much like hole sponsors at a golf tournament) to cover the overhead cost for the lanes and the food.


Missions Trip Products

If you're going on a YL Expeditions Spring Break missions trip bring back something unique from that place and sell it as a camp fundraiser. Example: coffee from Latin America (buy for $4/lb) and sell it for $15/lb.


Other Fundraising Ideas That Have Worked
  • Ask Facebook friends and include a link to donate
  • Run a YL5K Race and have runners create a fundeasy giving page 
  • Sell Coupon Books
  • Sell Yankee Candles
  • Work Concession Stands at local events

If you have other great fundraisers that have worked, email us ideas here.


7 Keys To Interacting with Parents

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This week on the blog we're looking at the top five excuses kids make for not going to camp. If you missed the first two, click here and here.

Part 1: My friends aren't going
Part 2: I don't have the money
Part 3: My Parents won't let me
Part 4: I have schedule conflicts
Part 5: I'm afraid of the unknown

When I first started leading Young Life almost twenty years ago, leaders typically had much closer relationships with the parents of their high school friends. In 1996, teenagers didn't own cell phones, so in order to contact them a leader had to call the home phone. This often resulted in conversations with parents. 

One key in getting your high school friends to camp is to not only invest in a relationship with them, but also with their parents. Not many parents will quickly shell out hundreds of dollars to ship their kid off with someone they don't really know. Most parents would love to know you better, even if they have not made any effort to do so. If we want to take their children to camp, we must step out of our comfort zones and build relationships with moms and dads.

Below are a 7 keys to interacting with parents:

Show Respect
As a general rule, refer to them as Mr. or Mrs. Insert-Last-Name. I would always default to this, but exceptions can more easily be made if you're married, a parent, or over 25. If they give you permission to call them by their first name, go with that.

Make the Call
Calling communicates that you're a responsible adult, whereas sending a text message appears less confident and more adolescent. If you're not confident in making those phone calls, ask your area director to set you up with a practice call with an adult on the YL Committee.

Digital Maturity
Parents may call your phone and get your voice mail. Will the greeting they hear lead them to trust you more or think of you as irresponsible? When they stalk you on social media, what pictures will they see? When a parent snoops in their teenager's text messages, what will the texts you wrote to their child communicate about you?

Know Your Stuff 
Parents will want details about camp. Do you have a fundraising plan? Do you know what their child will need to pack? Do you know how to describe a typical day at camp, or the sleeping and bathroom situations?

Predict Concerns, Prepare Answers
Last week I called a dad to ask if his son could come to camp. He told me that he couldn't trust his son to be away from home and needed to keep him on lock down this summer. I promised him that his son, other than using the bathroom, would most always be with a leader. I explained our value of leader-centered camping: we're not just chaperones letting kids roam around, but adult friends seizing every opportunity to share life with our friends.

Cast Vision
Describe your hopes for the trip and for their child. Tell them about your own experience and what influenced you in becoming a YL leader. Speak to the ways you have seen camp impact kids in the past and the potential you see in their child.

Know When To Stop Pushing
Getting their kid to camp is not worth hurting your relationship with them. We're in these relationships for the long haul, not just for a week of camp. Respect them enough to allow them to make the decision. After all, they are the parent, we are not. Here's one of the most honest posts I've ever written on this blog and it speaks more to this issue: "The Danger of Preying."


Bottom line, build relationships with BOTH teenagers and parents. 

If you have any thoughts to add, email me here. -Drew Hill 

Why Kids Don't Go To Camp: How to Navigate Schedule Conflicts

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This week on the blog we're looking at the top five excuses kids make for not going to camp.
  1. My friends aren't going
  2. I don't have the money
  3. My parents won't let me
  4. I have schedule conflicts
  5. I'm afraid of the unknown

"I can't go to camp, I have to work this summer to pay for car insurance."

"My coach will bench me if I miss summer practice."

"My family is going to the beach that week."

We've heard the excuses. These schedule conflicts are often the straws that break our backs. We've worked hard to overcome the obstacles of friends, money, and parents, but now feel almost ready to give up. There's hope! Don't give up yet! 

How To Navigate Schedule Conflicts

Cast A Vision

To a 16 year old, the idea of having your own set of wheels is the ultimate goal in life. If it means scooping ice cream all summer for minimum wage in order to pay for the car insurance, then so be it. A week at camp not only costs money, but limits summer income.

We've got to convince our friends that years from now the $140 they would have made mixing strawberries with graham crackers won't compare to the value of those camp memories and experiences. Show them pics and videos from past summer camps.

Show them pictures of your bridesmaids and groomsmen. Cast a vision for the bonding and relationships that happen on trips like these. Who knows, one day your friends who stood with you on top of 13,000 ft mountain might stand beside you at an altar?

Talk to Parents

Talk to their parents first and get them on board. A few weeks ago a leader in our area convinced a family to change their vacation dates so their son could come to camp.

Talk To Coaches

Cast a vision for them as well. Many times their sole focus is on an athlete's performance, but we all know the value of having a team member with high character. Tell the coach that this trip might not make "Big John" a better football player, but it will make him a better leader. Most coaches really do care about kids, otherwise they wouldn't work countless hours for little pay. Tell the coach that you don't want Big John to just be a great football player, but to be a great man. Convince him that a week away from summer practice will be worth it in the long run of Big John's life. It also doesn't hurt that many of our camp properties have weights and work out facilities. If an athlete can keep running or lifting while they're out of town, it helps the coach give the green light. It also helps to show them this video of Aaron Rodger's sharing his greatest regret




Talk to Bosses

If you've ever managed a restaurant employee schedule, I salute you. I can't imagine a more annoying task then trying to fit the time off requests of fifty workers into one work schedule. Empathize with employers. Tell them you know that it makes their job harder when they lose an employee for a week. Then cast the same vision you did for the coach. Odds are they'll be a better employee when they come back from camp then they were before they left. Be gracious and grateful.

Talk To Camp

If you have a high schooler taking an online summer class, don't let that be an excuse. YL camps will work with you to make it possible for your high school friend to be there. Last summer the office staff at Sharptop allowed one of our guys to spend an hour on their computer every day after lunch. He would not have been able to come if the office staff hadn't been willing to make it work for him. Don't abuse them, but also don't be afraid to ask. Remember, property staff loves these campers just as much as you do.

Consider an Alternative

If you've tried everything and are still hitting a road block, think outside the box. I've taken kids who weren't able to go to a traditional weeklong summer camp on shorter backpacking trips that were just as meaningful. 

One of my friends rented an RV for his Campaigners group and took them on a tour of 6 different Major League ball parks.

While there's nothing quite like a week at a YL summer camp, the goal isn't just getting kids to camp. The goal is introducing them to Jesus and walking with them in daily relationships. YL camp isn't the only way to make that happen. Talk to your Area Director and see if they have ideas for what you can do with kids who just can't make summer camp work. 

Start Planning for Next Summer

Your area will find out summer camp dates this coming fall. Consider sending out "Save The Date" postcards to everyone in your club card database. But don't just count on postcards and club announcements to do the trick. The most effective way to "save the date" is to go ahead and get kids signed up early. If you feel like you're behind in that process this year, go ahead and begin planning for next summer. It'll be here before you know it!

Why Kids Don't Go To Camp: How to Navigate the Fear of the Unknown

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This week on the blog we're looking at the top five excuses kids make for not going to camp.
  1. My friends aren't going
  2. I don't have the money
  3. My parents won't let me
  4. I have schedule conflicts
  5. I'm afraid of the unknown
Remember the first time you got on a school bus? I was excited, but nervous, wondering who I would sit beside. It ended up being a 1st grader named Shane who grossed me out by eating Vaseline. For real. He ate an entire squeezy tube of lip therapy.

We all get nervous when we don't know what to expect. Heck, even visiting churches is scary, and people are supposed to be nice to you. Can you imagine being at the peak of adolescence? Being at the height of nervousness? And someone asking you to step out of your comfort zone to experience a week of 'the unknown?'

And on top of that, since we're supposed to keep things a secret, every time a kid asks a question we respond with "I could tell you, but I'd have to kill you.


How To Alleviate The Fear Of The Unknown

Acknowledge & Empathize


Whether they admit it or not, their fear of the unknown is real. Let them know it's normal to be anxious. Tell them how you felt the first time you got on a camp bus.

"I remember going to camp when I was a sophomore. I was so worried about who I would sit beside on the bus. I was nervous that if I had to use the bus bathroom the mean guys who always sit in the back would lock me in there. But it ended up being OK. I sat by this kid from another school and we actually became pretty good friends."

When a 15 year old hears you say that, they gain confidence in knowing they're not alone.

Tell Them What They're Thinking

"I know you might be wondering what the bathroom situation is. Don't worry, there aren't any group showers, they actually have pretty nice individual shower stalls, and the TP is 2-ply!"

"I know you might be worried about certain girls forming a clique and leaving you out, but camp is set up to where we do most everything all together. And I'll hang out with you the whole time, even if other girls are mean."


"I know you are concerned about leaving your mom home alone all week. Since your dad is gone, I know she depends on you to be the man of the house, but your mom wants you to go and experience this. If you don't, she'll feel guilty that you stayed home just for her sake."


You know your middle and high school friends. Pray for them. Ask God to give you wisdom and discernment to understand the mental battles they might be internally fighting.

Tell Them About Camp

Show them a camp video. You can explain a typical day without ruining the surprises. They might think they're going to have to walk around in bathing suit all week, and that makes them self-conscious. Explain that afternoon free time is exactly that, time for them to freely choose what activity they want to do.

Explain that you're not going to ask them to do anything you're not willing to do yourself. Yes, that means we as leaders must conquer fears as well. I'm still scared of that pamper pole.

Give Them A Taste

Nick and Ray are two of my 'non-typical-Younglifey' friends. They don't wear Fratagonia. They don't like Taylor Swift. They don't sleep in enos.

When the lax bros and cheer team signed up for camp, it didn't really motivate them to get in their deposits. An exciting summer for Nick and Ray isn't spent at the pool. It's spent at the pool hall. The only thing they're raising money for are Marlboro Reds.

I was about done with my exhausting efforts to convince them to go to camp. Just before I gave up, I made a phone call.

"Hey [YL Property closest to us]. My name is Drew and I'm a YL leader in a town about 2.5 hours away. Is there any chance I can bring two of my high school friends up to camp tomorrow afternoon for free time, dinner, and club? We'll pay for dinner and leave property after club. Pretty please? I'm trying to convince them to spend a week at camp, but wanted to whet their appetite."

"Well, camp is pretty full, but if it's just three of you and you're willing to eat work crew meal, come on."


Our area was going to camp 3rd session at a different property, but Nick, Ray, and I took a day trip during 1st session to the property closest to us. It was much easier to convince them to pay $8 and give up a day than to pay $800 and give up a week.

Do you think they wanted to sign up after they'd spent just 6 hours on a YL property? You guessed correctly. I know it's not possible for everyone to do, but if you can give them a taste, they'll be hungry for more.

*Not all YL properties can accommodate such requests, so if you call, do so with hope, but without expectation.

Kanye Tweetstorms about YL

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It's crazy to see all the people who have been influenced by the ministry of Young Life!

Last night I was on Twitter and it was so cool to see Kanye tweeting about YL!

Not all of it makes complete sense to me, but it will surely give us some credibility when we visit schools. Here are some screenshots of his tweet storm. 






















Thanks for the love Kanye! 


Below are a few other posts that have been posted on this first day in April. 

Denny OKs Leaders to Date Team Members

New Young Life Summer Dress Code

Tim Tebow to Replace Denny Rydberg as New President of Young Life

Drew Holcomb Becomes New Lead Singer of the Newsboys

The 2020 YL All-Staff Conference to be held aboard Royal Caribbean's Largest Cruise Ship

Hydro Massage Beds to be Installed in all YL Camp Leader Lounges 






*Special shout-out to my brother, Blake Hill, for sharing his love of Kanye and creative genius with us. -Drew

Last Minute Game for Club Tonight: Mascot Challenge

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Tonight ends March Madness with the national championship game between Villanova and my beloved Tar Heels!  If you're looking for a last minute game for club, here's an easy one. 

Thanks to Amy Brooks for creating the game and sending it in. If you have game ideas to share, email us here.  

March Madness Mascot Challenge
Download this screen game below and have kids "buzz in" when the image appears if they know the name of the school it represents along with the school's mascot. You could use this as a mixer and divide the room into multiple teams that work together, or as an upfront game where a few kids compete to get the most points. In the slide show there are pictures of 15 mascots from teams that have been in this year's NCAA tournament. The more difficult ones have hints.
Download Keynote slides

Find other March Madness club ideas here.

Also, tonight we will find out who brings home the gold in the YL Leader Bracket Challenge

How Spring Break Broke My Heart

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I tried to avoid social media last week.

It was Spring Break for my high school friends and the few tweets I've read and posts I've seen have broken my heart. It seems everything we've talked about in Campaigners this year just got thrown out the window...

...of a jeep
...while speeding down the strip at Myrtle Beach
...along with a bottle of Absolut Vodka.

How do we respond when our high school friends make choices we know they're going to regret? What do we do when it seems like they're falling apart?

Twenty-five hundred years ago there lived a man named Nehemiah. His very name means "Jehovah comforts." He too was saddened over the lives of his friends. This is how he responded:

"When I heard they were in bad shape, I sat down and wept. I mourned for days, fasting and praying before the God-of-Heaven.

I said, "God-of-Heaven, the great and awesome God, loyal to his covenant and faithful to those who love him and obey his commands:

Look at me, listen to me. Pay attention to this prayer of your servant that I'm praying day and night in intercession for your servants, the People of Israel, confessing the sins of the People of Israel. And I'm including myself, I and my ancestors, among those who have sinned against you.

"We've treated you like dirt: We haven't done what you told us, haven't followed your commands, and haven't respected the decisions you gave to Moses your servant. All the same, remember the warning you posted to your servant Moses: 'If you betray me, I'll scatter you to the four winds, but if you come back to me and do what I tell you, I'll gather up all these scattered peoples from wherever they ended up and put them back in the place I chose to mark with my Name.'

"Well, there they are—your servants, your people whom you so powerfully and impressively redeemed. O Master, listen to me, listen to your servant's prayer—and yes, to all your servants who delight in honoring you—and make me successful today so that I get what I want from the king."

Nehemiah 1:1-11 (The Message)


I've never mourned for days, fasting and praying over my high school friends.

When I first read the story of Young Life founder, Jim Rayburn, "Dance, Children, Dance," I was struck by how often he went away to pray. Rayburn prayed for hours and hours, often through the night, interceding on behalf of kids. It reminded me of another man who prayed at night, one who prayed so hard he sweated blood.

I wonder what would happen at our middle and high schools if our Young Life teams prayed like that?

Almighty God of heaven and earth, give us the boldness of Nehemiah. Give us even the very desire to pray. We pray for our middle and high school friends, and include ourselves among those who have sinned against you. Lord have mercy, Christ have mercy. 

WyldLife Wednesday: Fun or Funny

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“I’m Howdy!” “And I’m Rowdy!” “And we like to get loud-y!”
When we think about planning program characters for our WyldLife friends, some of us get intimidated. “I’m not funny enough.” “I can’t write clever lines like that.” “I never have any new ideas.”

Good news! When it comes to middle school kids, FUN is often way more important than FUNNY.

I’m not saying WyldLife kids don’t like to laugh – they love to laugh. (Cue “Mary Poppins” soundtrack.) But what makes them laugh can be different.

These are concrete-thinking early adolescents who are beginning to think abstractly. They also make better participants than spectators.

Knowing this, how can we plan program characters for WyldLife clubs? Here are a few thoughts…

Short & Sweet
Program characters may only need a few lines before introducing an up-front game or mixer. If the program intro is 4 minutes followed by a 5-minute game, kids will be sitting for a long period of time. Instead, your characters can introduce themselves with a few short, catchy repeater lines.

Laffy Taffy
Don’t overthink dialogue between characters. What you and your friends find humorous may go right over the heads of early adolescents. Many of my middle school friends still love a good Laffy Taffy joke. (Really!) BANANA PEELS. Nobody needs to slip on an actual banana peel, but physical humor is great with this age group. The goofier and sillier, the better.

Careful Humor
Middle school kids are sensitive, so we want to be careful to not poke fun at them. Younger middle school kids don’t always get sarcasm, so we need to avoid that up front, as well.

High Energy
Program characters who are loud and move around will catch the attention of our WyldLife friends. If program characters are having fun leading a game, kids will have fun too.

What have you learned about doing program for WyldLife kids? Share your ideas with us.

Written by Julie Clapp.

The Young Life Leader's Guide To Prom Season

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As prom season is upon us, below are a few ways we as Young Life leaders can serve our high school friends, parents, and school administrations.

PRE-PROM

Prom-posals

Some of your high school friends are beginning to ask dates to the prom and would love your creative help thinking of a fun promposal idea. 

One of my high school friends wrote a letter to Roy Williams, coach of the UNC Tar Heels basketball team. He asked him to write a letter to the girl he wanted to ask to prom. Roy did it!

Dress/Tux Shopping

Go shopping with them. Do you think your high school friend would rather go to Men's Warehouse with his YL leader or his mom? It's a toss up, but for female YL leaders it's a great contact work opportunity!

Pimp That Ride

Offer to pimp out your Rav-4 and dress up as a limo driver to escort your high school friends and their dates to dinner and prom. Maybe even check with committee folks or adults at your church who have nice vehicles they'd be willing to let you borrow.

Chef-Boy-R-Prom

Offer to cook/serve an elegant candlelight dinner for your high school friends. Do it at your house, their house, the YL house, or outside at a park. It'll be much cheaper than a steakhouse and much more memorable! 

Post-A-Pic 

Show up at the pre-dinner photo spot with a super-nice camera that you borrowed from your rich uncle. Take pics, edit them, post them on social media and tag your high school friends. They'll appreciate having some good pics! 

Pray 

This is a night full of regrets for many of our friends. Let's beg God to protect them and to give them courage and wisdom when making tough decisions.

Prep

Help your high school friends think through the evening ahead of time. Tell them you know the temptations they will face. Tell them Jesus knows those same temptations (Matthew 4). Tell them to look for a way out (1 Corinthians 10:13)because Jesus always provides one. Who else is having these important conversations with them? It's one of the reasons we work so hard to earn the right to be heard. 



DURING-PROM

Volunteer
 

You might be surprised how grateful the high school administration will be to hear an adult ask if they can help supervise the prom. It's not like a ton of adults are lining up to referee boogie-dance wrastlin'.

Prom Alternative 

Some of your friends didn't get asked to the prom. They say it's not a big deal, but no one enjoys being left out. Imagine how excited they would be if you offered them another hangout option during prom. You could do something low-key or even create an event like "MORP" (Prom backwards.) Instead of the dance you could create an evening of a fancy meal followed by video scavenger hunts, rolling houses, ice blocking, movies, and even your own little dance party. That's the stuff memories are made of.



AFTER-PROM

If your high school puts on an After-Prom event, volunteer to help. A few years back our YL team would film music videos of kids during the event. We used the YL skit closet and had kids dress up and lip-sync the song of their choice. We got some construction lights and designed a lil stage. After we shot the music videos we uploaded them on the YL YouTube page for kids to view. It was a big hit. If your school doesn't offer an After-Prom consider offering your friends a late night alternative.

Do you have other ideas that have worked for you? Email us here and we'll add them to the post. 

Emoji Club

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Emojis are a fun way to communicate and have almost become a new language for this generation. 

David Pressgrove, Area Director in Craig, CO, recently sent in this creative club idea. (If you have ideas to share, email us here.)

EMOJI CLUB IDEAS

Emoji-Face Mixer

Have all the leaders on your team download the free Insta-Emoji Photo Editor App. Then divide into teams of 10. Do 4 different rounds, racing to see who posts their picture on Instagram first. Similar to the mixer used for Insta-Club

  1. Make a 10 person pyramid and use the Emoji-Editor app to add an emoji face to six folks in the pyramid. 
  2. Entire group together with a different face-part (eyes, nose, ears, lips) 
  3. Selfie with at least 6 faces and all with different emojis
  4. Entire group photo acting like animals and the corresponding animal emoji is over their face.  

Emoji Charades Mixer or Game

We recently spotted this fun new “Emoji Charades” game on DownloadYouthMinistry.com. It's a simple twist on one of my favorite club mixers, Reverse Charades.


To play, select 3-5 volunteers to come on stage, standing with their backs to the screen. Make sure they each have a phone on them that can display emojis. Display an emoji on the screen behind them and the crowd will act out. Once a contestant knows the emoji, they will type it on their phone and show the host. Whoever gets the most correct wins! 

Some emojis are super easy, while others are a little more challenging. Everyone will enjoy acting out the "smiling poo" emoji. 

You can pay $5 on the Download Youth Ministry website to download pre-made slides of Emoji Charades or you can make your own.

Rhett & Link's Version

Another way to do this game is to mirror a phone using an Apple TV as I described here and play pictionary, or Emojinary. You can watch Rhett & Link demonstrate here



David Pressgrove describes how they used it in his club: 
"Just like charades one person is given a song, movie, TV show or popular saying and they have to use emojis to get others to guess the title. We played guys vs. girls and rotated with one representative of each team trying to get their group to guess. We had eight different clues (mostly stolen from Rhett & Link's video) and then added up the time it took for each team to guess their four clues. The least total time won. There is also a “speed round” in the video you could do as well."

If you have any other ideas to add to Emoji club, email us here.

Soda-Can Mat-Ball

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Last week I was in Charleston, SC and ran into the James Island Young Life team after they just finished a game of Soda-Can Mat-Ball! 

Brooke Swetenburg sent me this video of Helen-Grace Hall hitting the can along with some instructions on how to play. If you're looking for a fun club alternative for the spring time, check it out!

Soda-Can Mat-Ball

"The pitcher throws a soda can and the batter tries to hit the can with the bat and make it explode. If the batter doesn't make the can explode, then it's an out. If the batter does make it explode, it becomes regular mat-ball

The pitcher will then pitch the kickball and you kick it. You run the bases backwards, and the bases are big mats. You run the bases around as many times as you can without being out, kind of like regular baseball but backwards and with mats. There are 3 outs and the way that you score is by making it through home plate and back around to first base. You play with fouls and catching outs and everything! It's super fun!"

An Audience of One

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Written by Jen Payne: Young Life Leader in Gig Harbor, WA.

I've had the privilege of being involved in Young Life for the past 30 years and have spent many of those years as an adult leader walking alongside girls. As leaders, we often find ourselves concerned with the numbers. We count heads at club and Campaigners and sometimes find ourselves discouraged when our efforts seem to go unnoticed and when attendance isn't what we had hoped for. I know I've struggled with this. Evaluating my purpose and questioning my impact. Wondering if we are doing a good enough job as a team.

This week, our team arrived at club early as always. We bustled about arranging chairs and cushions, hanging the projector screen, setting up the AV equipment and running through the program for the night. We prayed for those who'd be up front and for every kid who would walk through the door.

At 7:30 the doors swung open. As kids began to make their way in I scanned the crowd for "my girls.” After texting each one earlier in the day I had expected to see them, or at least a dozen of the 30 plus contacts I had made. As a whole, the group of kids was smaller than we all expected for the first club of 2016. But finally I spotted one. One freshman girl. Only one of "my girls" had shown up. She came over and sat by me and my freshman daughter who is my faithful sidekick.

As club began, I found my thoughts wandering to familiar places of disappointment and questioning. I tried to re-focus on my gratitude but I still wrestled. The night continued. We laughed and were entertained. Then it came time for the "talk.” A beautiful adult YL leader and friend spoke on the question "is your faith your own?" and, “if you don't have a faith what's keeping you from this Jesus who loves you so much?” She spoke from her heart and it was amazing. I sat there and found myself wishing more of "my girls" were there to hear it.

Then like every Monday night, we cleaned up and made our way to the car. On this night, my daughter’s friend -- the one freshman girl, needed a ride home. The three of us chatted about the funny games and how we laughed. We talked about the cool God story one of the seniors had shared. And then it happened. I felt the presence of Jesus join the three of us in my car as the girls began sharing the impression the club talk had had on their hearts. The "one freshman girl" said she had just been going through the motions and really wasn't making her faith her own. And how she wanted to now.

It was then that my heart realized it's an audience of one. One girl. One heart.

At that moment I felt Jesus encourage me. We need not worry about the numbers. We are to remain faithful in our leadership roles, to put our trust in Him and remember it's really about the audience of one. Just as Jesus captured an audience of one lonely woman at the well; one short man desperate to see Jesus from a tree; one blind man begging for his sight; one woman who thought if only I could touch his robe; that night at club Jesus spoke through a faithful YL leader and encountered an audience of one.

Jesus said to her, “Daughter, you took a risk of faith, and now you’re healed and whole. Live well, live blessed!” Mark 5:34

WyldLife Wednesday: 7 Questions for Contact Work

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Written by Kevin Chao: Area Director in Greenwich, CT and WyldLife Coordinator for the Metro North Region.

During a recent WyldLife event at a sportsplex in town, I was walking between the trampoline dodgeball area and the gymnastics room. As I looked down into the gymnastics area my eyes met with one of the middle school guys. 

"CHAOOOOOOOO!!!!" he yelled at the top of his lungs, waving his arms frantically towards me just to say hi. His buddies looked at him, smiled, and then looked up at me to see me waving back and yelling back to him, "Andrew!! You da man!"

Before that night I'd only met Andrew three times. We'd probably hung out less than 2 hours total, but those 2 hours of "contact work" allowed him to feel comfortable enough to scream my name out loud in front of a tons of his friends. Andrew and his friends are now pumped about WyldLife and excited about almost anything we do.

WyldLife contact work doesn't need to be a crazy event or something we dread. One of my favorite ways to hang out with kids is to just play ultimate Frisbee. We play almost every Friday. The kids at the middle school walk to a deli where I meet them and we play at the park nearby. I've not been questioned once about what I am doing or who I am. The kids don't care at all. 

What does contact work look like for you during this next month? Below are some questions that have helped me know where to start:
  1. Think of your town. Where do your town's middle school kids hang out after school? Where's a routine place kids go?
  2. Do you have one middle school student you connect with? Start with them and then meet their friends
  3. How can you make this consistent and show up at the same time and same place every week?
  4. What are some middle school volunteer opportunities in your town?
  5. Do you know anyone on the PTA that could help connect you in the school?
  6. Are there places to meet before school, like a coffee shop or quick restaurant?
  7. What do you already enjoy doing that could happen with middle school students? (Ex: Ultimate frisbee, video games, etc...) 

Take some time as a team to answer these questions. Don’t compare your situation to other teams/areas because contact work may look different depending on where you are. Figure out the best strategy for YOUR area and YOUR team and have fun doing contact work. It’s the best! -Kevin Chao

"Encouragement for a Weary Young Life Leader" by Pablo Otaola

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We're looking for helpful ideas and encouragement for folks doing Multi-Cultural & Urban ministry. If you'd like to contribute, email us here. 

This post below was written by Pablo Otaola, YL staff in Denver, CO.

It’s the end of the school year and if you’re anything like me you’re tired. You've carried the burdens of your kids and your spirit is tired. You've ran after kids (literally sometimes!) and you are physically tired. You've heard the problems kids face and you are exhausted with sadness for the reality of the brokenness they face. In biblical terms, your armor is kinked, worn out, and scuffed.

In the middle of all of this, we hear from the Lord, “Well done my good and faithful servant.” We also know that we have won the war because He has won the war for us. Though we are victorious in Christ, our humanity is tired. Especially when we have camp assignments and camp trips coming soon this summer. So what do we do? 

We lament. 

We look to God and lament the brokenness of the world and our kids’ lives. We tell the Lord that we are panting for his water to restore our soul. We go to the Psalms to hear David’s cry to the Lord while people were trying to kill him. We also hear the Old Testament prophets crying out to God for Jerusalem. 

Sometimes these cries come in the form of music.

If I look closely at my own tradition we often listen to songs about Christ being the King and a Victor in battle. I don't often hear songs about being tired and having no more tears to cry. Over the last year our region has suffered much loss. We've been forced to engage every part of our faith and our musical worship in lament. 

If you're tired, below are two songs to encourage you. 


First, read the translation of Submergeme and meditate on the words. Then listen to the chords of Submergeme and let the music move you into a place of grieving the reality of kids’ lives and let the Lord fill your weary heart with hope. 


Next listen to the song Take Me to the King and fully allow the Holy Spirit to be the healing balm as you are taken to the King himself.

Submergeme (in Spanish, translated to English below) 




Tired of the journey, panting for your water
I crossed a desert, I have no strength left
This is how I come to you.

I fought as a soldier and sometimes suffered
And although I won the fight, I have worn my armor,
This is how I come to you.
Submerge me in the river of your Spirit
I need to refresh this dry heart
I’m thirsty for you.

Over the course of the summer we will spend many more hours being with kids and hearing hard stories in cabin time. Allow the Lord to meet you in a place of grieving and exhaustion and look to him for hope. 

Here is a list of lament songs that our region is currently using to worship a God that meets us in our suffering.
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